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♥~"You decide to become a good man or a strong man or a rich man or all these; you can bring about any change in you, provided you develop the will power and work for it tirelessly. This might be difficult to accept for the wishy-washy individuals. Forget about them; it is the truth.~♥
♥~"The happiest persons may not have the best everything in life but they are good in making the best of everything that life brings along their way. Remember that life is always a matter of choice not by chance. because in every chances comes along our way we made a choice that bring the best of it.~♥
♥~"When someone tries to tear you down, show them you get right back up because like steel, you may bend but you won't break.~♥
♥~"Confidence is beautiful. No matter your size, no matter your weight. Be confident in who you are and you'll be beautiful.~♥
♥~"Bear in mind that the quality of any advice anybody has to offer has to be equally judged against the quality of their life and the kind of example they want you to follow.~♥
♥~"If you have lived with the fear of failure all your life, you tend to erect a window of risk aversion. In every opportunity, you first see the risks, the downsides, the possibility of failure. Someone else may look at the same image through the window of optimism and see a huge, overpowering silver lining.~♥
♥~"Sometimes we are hated for the color of our skin or our beliefs, people will see you and judge you before they even get to know you, be proud of who you are and where you came from, you are special and dont let anyone tell you or make you feel otherwise.~♥
♥~"One of the most powerful decision you can make in your life is to do something for someone who doesn't have the power or resources to return the favor.~♥
♥~"When you are down and in trouble, keep fighting. Don't give up. keep kicking. It won't help to wallow in self-pity, or curse your stars or play the blame game. Every adversity has an opportunity couched within. It is up to us to grab it. And what you do when the going gets tough, is what defines your outcomes.~♥

♥~"Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.~♥
♥~"Commitment never allows us to lose sight of our target. It is the battery that gives power to all types of activities. That is why it is considered most important for individuals and organizations as well. Without the help of committed employees no organizational goal could be attained. Without displaying firm commitments no organization can earn the goodwill of its customers. If the citizens are not fully committed to nation building, no country can progress and achieve peace and prosperity.~♥
♥~"Stop holding grudges. Don't live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, What you did to me is okay. It is saying, I'm not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever. Forgiveness is the answer, let go, find peace, liberate yourself! And remember, forgiveness is not just for other people, its for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try to do better next time.~♥
♥~"Who you are now is hopefully not who you used to be. To make our lives great we have to be willing to let go of the voices inside ourselves that tell us to doubt where we can and should go because of who we used to be. Until we are fully capable of letting go of the person we used to be, we will limit ourselves from achieving greatness. Instead of looking backwards in life, and shunning yourself for all of the mistakes you used to make, look forward, remembering your mistakes only to learn from them not to dwell in shame because of them. Life on this earth is limited and tomorrow has never been promised to any man. Make the most of each day by becoming better than you were yesterday, and by climbing new heights whenever possible. Make a vow to take life on from now until the day you die!~♥
♥~"Don't blame yourself when something doesn't go as expected, sometimes the plans we have set out for ourselves just dont work out. Take a deep breathe, regroup, and figure out your next move, because life can get you down but that doesn't mean you have to stay there.~♥
♥~"Real joy comes from not only achieving great things, but also by experiencing the journey to our achievements. Without any journey, without any hardship and without having to overcome adversity, a trophy means nothing. To feel like you have really earned something you have to be willing to focus on daily growth as each day comes. Many of us are given a set number of expectations from authoritative figures in life and never really get to choose too many things that happen in our environments. Because of this it seems as though when we mature and grow up we no longer have a journey to focus on, and instead look to make goals, instead of look to get better each day on the way to these goals. If we are ever to achieve real joy and fulfillment we have to let go of the idea that all that matters is where we get to in the end, because what actually matters most is if we are able to learn from our journey along the way.~♥
♥~"Though we aren't always able to control the people that we meet, we do have a lot of control over whom we choose to keep in our lives. Though it is definitely difficult to choose who to make your friend and who not to, making these decisions and picking the right friends could be as serious as life or death. In choosing friends, be sure to look for and hang around people who are loyal, people who encourage, and people who are responsible. If a person is willing to talk about someone else to you, chances are they will speak negatively about you to others as well. Also, if a person is willing to discourage their other friends from chasing their dreams, chances are they will attempt to discourage you from chasing your own as well, the time will surely come for everyone to show you who they really are, so make sure you believe them the first time.~♥
♥~"For every action there is a reaction and every reaction bares a consequence, be sure the things you do today are worth the price you could pay tomorrow.~♥
♥~"Those who are not aware of the real and limitless resources lying dormant within human life are deprived, and this self-deprivation is the cause of suffering.~♥

“I have walked that long road to freedom. I have tried not to falter; I have made missteps along the way. But I have discovered the secret that after climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb. I have taken a moment here to rest, to steal a view of the glorious vista that surrounds me, to look back on the distance I have come. But I can only rest for a moment, for with freedom come responsibilities, and I dare not linger, for my long walk is not ended.”
♥~"Just remember, anger is always your enemy. You must keep your emotions in check. The moment you lose control of them, you lose the fight every time.~♥